Category Archives: loss

Secret Squirrel’s Avoidance (plus random poem)

Someone recognised me the other day. Somebody I went to school with, twentyish years ago. This surprised me because I didn’t recognise him. And because he looked so old. Maybe ten years older than me. Not that I am old. … Continue reading

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Last Christmas

I really feel that this might be my last Christmas. I hope so. I am just so tired of everything. I am getting too old for this. I will be thirty-five next year and I am still single, still alone … Continue reading

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Leper! Unclean!

I am the human equivalent of a wet wipe in that I am often flushed away when people are done with me. Am I being harsh on myself. Perhaps but I think I have just cause to think this. Finding … Continue reading

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More Black Than Orange

I wonder what the future holds. Presently I know that my future for the next hour involves sitting next to a girl who smells so much of cheese it is as if the air around her has solidified into stinky … Continue reading

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M Appeal

Friends with benefits? Lovers? Just friends? Hello, I am a male. Regard my confused mammal face when it comes to relationships. The list isn’t in order of preference by the way. It is the situation I found myself in once. … Continue reading

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Unlovable Me

I am tired of having my heart broken. Is it too much to ask to find the one person whom I am meant to spend the rest of my life with? Maybe I am unlovable. That has to be the … Continue reading

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Black Heart, Suicide Notes, Unloved

Would it surprise you to know that I have written a suicide note? As it stands, this note is essentially a placeholder that will never be used. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that I would commit suicide. … Continue reading

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